Seduce online

1 - be efficient

This may seem obvious to some of you, but it is essential that you register on most dating sites possible. not not dwell on one dating site you would lose many contacts potenciels found on the Site or you are not registered .... Even if this requires a management multiple accounts, more painful, it's worth ...

2 - Choosing your nickname

Choose your screen name! Watch the nicknames of some people, it borders on the ridiculous claim, and the indescence anything! You do not scare your correspondent (s) with a nickname that makes you ridiculous or do not fit your personality or what you are looking for. ex: Sexman, etc. A pseudo classical ... taking over part of your first name will attract less suspicion and make you more credible.

3 - Fill up your profile

Complete the information sheet you are asked on most sites. Be specific about yourself, your research, your desires, without too abuse (the perfect does not exist!) Never leave your card blank for your correspondents will consult and will be wary not to find information to your subject, leaving you little chance to meet people: if you want to meet and tell the exiter!

4 - Your photos, videos ...

Put a photo: If put a photo! even if some of you will say "yes but I do not want to be seen, recognized etc. ...". First the only people who will see your photo will be those listed on the site: So in the same situation as you! Secondly you may very well make arrangements to have your photo not make you completely recognizable at a glance (photo taken from afar, a little aside, slightly blurred ... etc ...). This is important because the ad with one or photos are viewed in much larger proportions than those who do not, then arrange for you to upload one!

5 - Your age lie or tell the truth

You can cheat a bit on your age. This "trick" is used more often by women than by men. But you, gentlemen, you You can use them, it can make you more desirable in the eyes of a beautiful surfer Obviously, it is not to cheat than 10 years, but for example if you have 31 years you 29 can tell if you're 40 you can write 38, they are psychological thresholds that some people are sensitive and can provide you with contacts additional.

6 - Be positive to show you the best facet

Embellish or underestimate your profession as appropriate. Indeed, this is unfair but you will, before any real contact, judged on your profession. For example, you are employed in a waste (I have nothing against employees who make a dump job tri difficult and indispensable), but Unfortunately, this job will not be very good effect, so you can simply indicate that you are official or treated, which is Souvant the case, and will be more flattering. In contrast, you're a lawyer, if you list your occupation on your fact sheet, you may scare away a lot of callers who will be underestimated, not feeling "up to" when it is ultimately very good people. So you can tell that you work in the advice is less impressive and you will meet more people. You will always have the opportunity to "itemize" your business later.

7 - Your search area neighboring departments

Broaden your area. The reflex is often not find corresponding (s) only in its city or few kilometers only around. It is a mistake, you need to expand greatly in the limit of résonnable, at one or two departments, it is often enough, your search area. Why ? Simply because few kilometers further persmettent often contact a much larger number of people. And among these people is can be the one who you please ...

8 - Stay connected, do not miss your messages

Look at your messages often. Log on as often as possible to different sites to check for messages. better, if the option is available, enable the option to automatically receive an email if someone left you a message. It is important to react promptly when you receive a message or are connected to a corresponding (e), in fact, other people, sometimes thousands, are also part (s), send messages and try to get in contact with the same people you. If you do not react fast enough, you may miss your chance .... People are busy and can not spend their day to discuss or appointments, a selection on the opportunity of the moment happens naturally.

9 - Avoid spelling mistakes!

Treat your spelling and grammar. This is very important! You communicate with someone in a First, by mail proxy, the only thing that person sees you is the form and content of your messages. If you do not you read, do not make an effort to correct gross errors in spelling, you will not be made ​​(e) seriously, you will attract derision and distrust. Take another look at your messages 3 times before poster.

10 - Banish from your mind the negative

Be positive! When you write to your correspondent (s) you strive to be positive. Each has its own problems, read those of others, discuss, nobody cares. This does not particularly interested someone you really do not even know with whom you exchange messages for 2 days! instead, try to talk about pleasant things, which ammusent, who travel ... the reversible or you will attract many sympaties ...

11 - No rush, no harassment

Do not harass your correspondent (s). This is a practical household communications, some people, understandably, are edgy, not vexed ... not receive immediate response to their messages. They thought to have well written, interesting or fun but be .. there is no answer. So it follows a series of messages, often in the early pressing and increasingly insulting ... This is obviously not recommended, you do not know why the person does not answer you (vacation, sick, training etc ...) and when she finds your messages at once ... .. it is certain that you will never have an answer ...

12 - Insults, threats to banish permanently

Do not insult rather than a person who does not want to talk to you or does not accept an appointment. This person probably good reasons personal often unrelated to your previous correspondence (she is not ready, does not feel at ease, shaped etc ...). Try your luck later in a few weeks or months by sending a nice little message. Do not forget that people talk to each other, if you are concidéré as a disagreeable person, insulting ... many people do you meet more ...

13 - The "miser" killed the cat

Do not be stingy (e)! Do not reject the websites where it is necessary to subscribe or pay any contribution. have First commercial enterprises, most of the time, making efforts to offer impeccable service and expect in return for your subscription you give additional services. Second, what is the point of éconnomiser few tens or hundreds of euros, while often it is your whole life you are going into meeting the loved ... it's worth investing a little in this research.

14 - Multiply your contacts

Send many messages. You must give yourself the best chance. For that you must cause the maximum of meetings, exchanges, for promote hazard. If you write and correspond with two people, how many chances do you have for these two people, if you meet them, match your ideal ... very little. So you must match up to people so that, ultimately, a selection takes place and leads you naturally to meet the people corresponding to the maximum your tastes and interests. this research.

15 - How to get positive contacts

How to select your correspondent for a maximum of positive contacts? Do not select very few! Obviously the first selection is the age bracket, if you are 30 you will not correspond with people aged 18 and 55. But, apart from age, the geographical selection, be very flexible in your research. Do not stop on first impressions, it has not sourtout pictures. Many people insert photos that are not falteuses, poorly or simply taken, voluntarily, or it does not recognize them. Get in touch with as many people, there will be time then to make a selection, which is also will naturally side.

16 - Patience a big word

Be patient (e)! Dating sites will still do when you need it again, there is no imperative to rush. You do not get as many contacts as you thought, not enough messages, it does not matter, maybe next month will be more fruitful. Periods are also more favorable, eg before and after the year end holidays, the center holiday opproche or during summer. Wait patiently and with determination the moment you can get the best of your communication efforts.

17 - Provoking the dating

Your goal is to meet people in "real" way to know them better and possibly a link or relationship of good friendships. You do not get lost interest in long relationships with virtual computers internposés. If your correspondent (s) after several solicitations do not want to encounter in "real", cut short and do not waste your time "chat" and exchange unnecessary.

18 - Be courteous

If you feel, at a meeting in "real" or during virtual conversations or telephone that the Current does not pass. Do not be wicked (e) with your interviewer, but stick to your guns, let them know gently that it is not useful to keep in touch and do not waste your time in a relationship that you lead nowhere. Meanwhile, you lose the occassion to meet other people with whom you have most affinity.

19 - The phone key means of first contact

Ask to make telephone calls. This is a first step, if the caller (e) a little hesitant to meet you, asks questions, try to convince him to accept a telephone conversation with you. It is generally quite effective, it allows more or less to get a good idea of the person, his reactions, its taste ... etc and allows contact warmest messaging.

20 - The final step, the real date

This is the final step! Your goal is to meet people in real life and not behind a computer. Be strength proposal, be creative, try at first to get an appointment face to face, over a drink, cinema, restaurant. Repeat your proposal several time if you meet resistance. If this still seems difficult, try to organize a trip with several people, even you do not know or not well, and let nature take its course. It is more reassuring to go out with a group of people that only (e) with a person you do not know at all.